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Article #38: The Three Secrets of Happy Relationships

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Did you know that nothing is really thoughts are silenced. We enter a void of
secret? Nothing! All the solutions to silence. In the void our soul-which is
happy relationships are right before your one with Universal Spirit (US)-connects
eyes. Every wonderful, glorious aspect of directly with our minds and gives us
the original nature of human nature can whatever information is most important
be seen in Mother Nature's perfect for us to have. As an example of
relationship with herself. Nature is the meditation, here is an excerpt from Fall
window to your soul, humanities garden of Into Freedom:
Paradise. Stand naked in nature and My eyes were closed, but I felt more
awaken to your soul, for it is happiness awake in this unseen universe than in my
waiting to happen. seen universe. The knowledge I received
Your birthright is happiness. Why? felt profoundly correct. The information
Because your soul is a divine, eternal was a revelation. Revelations were
aspect of a perfect universe as expressed awakening me to truths I had kept
in nature's perfection. In your soul lies sleeping in the far reaches of my mind.
all the love and wisdom found in the The void felt as if I were viewing myself
nature of the universe. All the learned from the outside in. All my thoughts and
lessons, the universal laws, the creative feelings were an objective experience. I
arts, the knowledge since the beginning had been in complete denial of how John's
of time are recorded there. The answer to [my husband had been verbally abusing me
every question, the solution to every for eighteen years] words affected me.
problem lies inside each of us. Because falling into the void stopped
We are born knowing that happiness is the conscious thought and painful emotion,
original nature of human nature because the need for denial vanished. With denial
the love and wisdom in our souls sound at rest, my repressions streamed forth
loud and clear in our minds. So why, as from my subconscious mind and flowed
adults, are there so few truly happy directly into my conscious mind. Forcing
people, so few really happy me out of denial by awakening my
relationships? What the heck happened to conscious mind to my truth, universal
all that love and wisdom born of our consciousness was making my subconscious
souls? I found out what happened by conscious! Revelations were transforming
pioneering a philosophy of love whose me from the darkness of unknowing to the
three keys to happiness solve the mystery light of knowing. . . .
of happy relationships. Sharing this I remembered hearing that every atom in
important information with the world was the human body is the exact replica of
so important for me that I spent the universe, a miniature solar system of
seventeen years researching, studying, electrons spiraling a nucleus like
and writing a book-Fall Into Freedom: An planets around the sun. Contained in each
Affair Inspires One Woman's Search for atom is all the information that has ever
Truth. Here is my two-point snapshot of been. Quantum physics found that
what the heck happened to happiness and everything in known solar systems is made
The Philosophy of how to get it back: out of the same atoms, bodies of atomic
1) Psychological Healing: As discussed energy differentiating themselves by
above, when we are born our conscious frequency and pattern. Filled with
minds are directly connected to the love revelations, meditation was showing me
and wisdom in our souls. The voice of our that my body confirmed scientific fact.
souls live in our subconscious mind For when my consciousness ascended into
telling our conscious mind that we are this dimension of higher frequency,
divine, eternal sparks of the dispersing the clutter of ego, both
substance-light-that fills the universe. knowledge and knowingness were
What results from love, wisdom, divinity, inescapable. Since the physical self and
and eternity is a natural way of feeling universal self were made out of the exact
happy. At birth our souls know the same atoms, discovery of truth was an
purpose of our lives. Our souls give us eventual certainty, not only for me, but
this information by way of our feelings. for everybody.
To varying degrees after birth, our To my happy surprise, with truth came the
caretakers guide us in ways that serve solution to every mystery. The loving
their feelings of who they think we frequency of the union of human and
should be instead of serving our soul divine made me feel so safe in the
feelings. Any person directing us against resolution of each mysterious behavior, I
our natural soul feelings hurts our happy found myself a willing participant in
feelings, turning happy feelings into seeking, finding, and understanding the
hurt feelings. Hurt feelings are the root thoughts, words, and deeds that made John
cause of unhappiness. Unhealed hurt and I partners in the crime of denial. By
feelings turn into pain, then anger, then making my subconscious conscious,
hate, then fear. This is called fear meditation was ripping away one denial at
conditioning. a time, helping me see how we had been
The fear that results from hurt feelings struggling to hold on to past sorrows at
is stored in our subconscious with the the cost of present happiness. Unmasked
love in our souls. At this point, the were secret thoughts and feelings to
subconscious contains both fear and love. which our marriage had become a slave,
As time passes and hurt feelings mount, those repressed thoughts and feelings
fear begins to fill up the subconscious, harvesting the ongoing drama of our
pushing the voice of the soul into the marriage.
far reaches of the subconscious where the A higher consciousness was making my
consciousness can barely hear it. The consciousness aware that the seeking
loving voice that gives us our individual determined the finding of truth. All the
purpose and the wisdom that we are repressed thoughts and feelings that
divine, eternal beings has been silenced caused my fear had to be revealed to be
by the loud voices in our environment. healed. Revealing then purifying
As our soul feelings in our subconscious repressions with understanding,
are light, making us happy, the fear forgiveness, and compassion was the
feelings in the subconscious are dark, initiatory journey to becoming the person
making us unhappy. But since the hurt I wanted to be.
feelings that led to the fear are In the void, miraculous discoveries both
subconscious, we don't know why we are wonderful and awful contained no judgment
unhappy. Unhappiness results because the about the truths they revealed. Oneness
subconscious has great power over the with the universe demonstrated that a
consciousness. The symptoms of humanity void of fear, judgment, and
subconscious fear cause thoughts, blame and full of understanding,
feelings, and behaviors such as anger, forgiveness, and compassion would reveal
blame, and judgment. To stay in denial of win/lose battles to be archaic blunders.
the fear that resulted from hurt A humanity who understood that the
feelings, fear is projected into others darkness of war, personal or global, had
as anger, blame and judgment. Anger, no chance of driving out the darkness of
blame, and judgment justify all kinds of fear. A humanity who understood that only
destructive behaviors that cause unhappy love could drive out the darkness of fear
relationships. Projection of those inner would change the world.
feelings can lead to fights, affairs, As I said, there are no secrets. In the
divorce, multiple breakups, etc. next section, when I tell you what the
But alas! There is a solution to all this three secrets to happy relationships are,
unhappiness, a way to free the it will be as if you already knew them,
subconscious from fear, reconnect with like you are remembering something you
the voice of the soul, and have happy already knew. That is called knowingness.
relationships! The hurt feelings that are The three secrets of happy relationships:
the root cause of fear can be revealed to are understanding, forgiveness, and
be healed. By making the subconscious compassion. UFC is the definition of
conscious, we can seek, find, and heal love, the love we are all learning to
hurt feelings, freeing us from fear. One give ourselves, others, and the world.
way to do that is by understanding that Every time we have understanding a
our projected feelings are ours alone. behavior we are more able to forgive.
Our relationships with others are a Every time we have forgiveness for a
reflection of our relationship with behavior we are more able to have
ourselves, a result of childhood fear compassion. And every time we have more
conditioning. We are attracted to people compassion for a behavior, we grow in
with fear/love conditioning similar to love. There is no forgiveness without
ours and visa versa. For better and for understanding, no compassion without
worse, that is what marriage is all forgiveness, no love without compassion,
about! and no happiness without love. (UFC does
To heal, we must take responsibility for not negate responsibility or
the hurt child inside ourselves. That accountability, nor does it mean staying
requires returning to those feelings and in an abusive relationship.) UFC is the
getting them up and out. This process expression of the wisdom in our souls.
frees the subconscious from the dark Love and wisdom expressed as UFC,
side, allowing the light to shine combined with meditation (UFC+US) is The
through. When the light of our souls Philosophy of Fall Into Freedom:
shines through, we are free to be happy. Psychological and spiritual healing
And since our relationships with others spiritualizes our human nature.
are a reflection of our relationship with Spiritualizing our human nature is the
ourselves, we will have happy meaning of life and the only way to
relationships, be it romantic, parent happiness, the only freedom. The
child, friendship, co-worker, even Philosophy of (UFC+US) is the process of
strangers! going from fear to love. It is a model of
2) Spiritual Healing: Through meditation, psychological and spiritual enlightenment
our minds can directly connect with our that can be used by anyone to have happy,
souls. The soul must be personally healthy, loving relationships. Seeking
experienced to end doubt that all souls happy relationships with the
are a divine, eternal aspect of the understanding, forgiveness, and
divine source of life, Universal Spirit compassion born of the soul determines
(US). Psychological and spiritual healing the finding of the garden of Paradise.
work together, both necessary for Experiencing our souls teaches us the
psychological health and spiritual truth that the original nature of our
growth: psychological and spiritual human nature is spirit. The truth will
enlightenment. To meditate, all conscious set you free to be! Mystery solved!






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