| p>There are many reasons to cope with your grief | | | | help those seeking personal validation of what is on |
| and confront unresolved issues that you may have | | | | The Other Side, as part of their spiritual growth and |
| regarding the loss of someone special. It can affect | | | | understanding. |
| your life on so many different levels, from your | | | | Is this the answer for everyone? No it isn't, because |
| physical health, mental well-being, your ability to cope | | | | everyone has their own needs, thoughts, and paths, |
| with life's responsibilities, to your ability to maintain | | | | but for a lot of people, this is one piece of the |
| healthy relationships with others. | | | | healing process that helps them remember and know |
| So often when you have lost a loved one, it seems | | | | that their loved one is still there, which can help get |
| impossible to keep spiritual principles intact, even if | | | | them past the spiraling thought processes that seem |
| you felt you had a firm grip on them before your | | | | to keep them stuck in a prolonged grieving process. |
| loved one passed on. Some may experience feelings | | | | Numerous bereavement groups have found this type |
| of anger, depression, guilt, sadness, regret, among | | | | of spiritual healing, through credible Psychic Mediums, |
| other individual feelings based on their own unique | | | | to be the missing link for many of the bereaved. |
| sense of loss. You have heard countless times | | | | Are all Psychic Mediums credible? Unfortunately, the |
| before that these feelings are all part of the normal | | | | answer is no, and you should do your research just |
| grieving process, and while you know this is true, the | | | | as you would with any major decision. There are |
| knowledge of it may not make you feel any better. | | | | many good Psychic Mediums besides the famous |
| Sometimes this process seems to go on forever, or | | | | ones you may have seen on TV. Psychic Mediums |
| just when you think you're doing better, something | | | | who are not booked for years in advance, as the |
| comes out of the blue and catches you off guard, | | | | very popular Mediums usually are. You should be |
| making you feel as if you are back at the beginning | | | | aware as you search, that there is a difference |
| of it all. It seems that after the initial loss, when | | | | between a Psychic reading and a Medium reading. |
| others were (or perhaps were not) around to offer | | | | There is a phrase used that describes the difference |
| their support, suddenly you find yourself alone, as if | | | | well: "All Psychic Mediums are Psychics, but not all |
| you're being told "OK, now it's time to move on." You | | | | Psychics are Mediums." Remember this as you |
| want to cry, but instead smile, until you are alone, as | | | | search, a Medium is really who you want to look for, |
| everything reminds you of them. This transitional | | | | as their specialty and abilities have given them more |
| period can sometimes make it difficult to reach out | | | | experience connecting with The Other Side, than that |
| for continued support, because some people may | | | | of a regular psychic, whose skills are focused on |
| feel ashamed that they are still having difficulties and | | | | prophecy. Pray to God, your angels, loved ones, or |
| are still in need of that support. Whether the person | | | | whomever, for direction, and learn to trust your inner |
| you have lost was taken unexpectedly, or it was a | | | | knowing as you search for the Psychic Medium you |
| death you thought you were "ready for," you find | | | | feel the most comfortable with. Look for someone |
| out you are never ready for the loss of someone | | | | who has good testimonials from those they have |
| special, whatever the circumstance. Your life changes, | | | | read for, someone who makes you feel comfortable. |
| you miss them, you want them back, and nothing | | | | Figure out what personal qualities you relate to, i.e., |
| seems to soothe these feelings. | | | | are they down to earth, can they help you on your |
| Even if because of your spiritual principles, you think | | | | spiritual path, man or woman, older or younger, |
| they are still among us, or doing well in the hereafter, | | | | whatever it is that you think will be a good fit, and |
| you may berate yourself for not being able to find | | | | keep that in mind while remaining flexible to being |
| comfort in this. You may also admonish yourself | | | | particularly "struck" by someone as you search. Only |
| inwardly because now, on top of everything else, | | | | begin this journey once you have had time to go |
| you feel a sense of shame that if you "really | | | | through the "normal" grieving process, and feel that |
| spiritually believed," you would not be having these | | | | you are ready. A reputable Psychic Medium will be |
| feelings. So now you feel guilt at possibly lacking faith | | | | there for you in the future if you need them, but will |
| as well. | | | | also encourage you to move on and allow you to |
| Some people become angry at God for taking their | | | | feel your loved ones near without their help, without |
| loved one, "before their time," again causing a | | | | attempting to keep you tied to them and future |
| perceived separation from God, who until now, has | | | | consultations, through dependency. It is very |
| been a foundation. Other people in your life may | | | | important that you find one that you feel has a good |
| begin to feel helpless because they may no longer | | | | understanding of, and compassion for the grieving |
| know what to do for you, and they may quietly | | | | process. One that you know takes their responsibility |
| withdraw. In some ways, the loss of a loved one can | | | | to the bereaved, and the impact they can have on |
| begin to feel like you have lost even more, including | | | | you, very seriously. |
| the support of your family, friends, and a separation | | | | Is a Medium Reading a substitute for the normal |
| from whatever your spiritual faith has been. Some of | | | | grieving process and/or counseling? Definitely no. |
| your feelings may be based on wondering if you did | | | | Although it can certainly be used in conjunction with, |
| enough (or too much in some cases), if they are | | | | prior to, or after grief counseling (but not instead of), |
| doing OK, and what really happened to them when | | | | unless of course after a reading, you find that it has |
| they passed on. Do they see you now? Do they | | | | helped you immensely, as it has many people. |
| know how much you love them; How much you miss | | | | Don't we all have the ability to do this? No, not |
| them? Were they in pain? The questions seem | | | | everyone. I do believe that each of us has special |
| endless. You want to have faith, so you tell yourself | | | | gifts of a spiritual nature, but as with physical human |
| that what you think you have believed all of your life | | | | skills, they vary greatly. You do have special gifts, |
| is true, that they "live on" in heaven or some similar | | | | but whether this is among them, is something that |
| "good" place, and are still watching over you. But still | | | | only you can find out for sure. A good Psychic |
| you doubt, you want to KNOW. | | | | Medium can and should help you to tune into your |
| One of the biggest "catches" to spirituality is that it is | | | | spiritual awareness as well, if you desire. I would like |
| based on believing, on faith. But it is a different kind | | | | to tell you that everyone can do this, but I don't like |
| of belief, not a belief in something we have been | | | | to put that pressure on people, especially if you |
| conditioned to think or feel. It is an inner knowing, our | | | | personally are not able to. It's like saying "Can anyone |
| soul's memory of what really is, and sometimes when | | | | be a musician?" Well, with enough time, patience and |
| you are out of balance, it is hard to remember what | | | | dedication, perhaps anyone can play an instrument, |
| your soul truly knows. This is why, sometimes even | | | | but the end product will vary greatly. Some could be |
| after grief counseling, we still have the same feelings | | | | great, others not so much. |
| and questions, because often times it does not deal | | | | The principles I will talk about below can be applied |
| with the spiritual side of life. It does not answer | | | | prior to, or after a healing reading with a Psychic |
| questions, but seems to only be asking more | | | | Medium, as they go hand in hand, working in |
| questions. Questions about your feelings, questions | | | | conjunction with each other. |
| about your reality, so you feel it has fallen short of | | | | Begin healing with the following principles: |
| allaying your fears and giving you the real answers | | | | First, let yourself feel your feelings. Go through your |
| you're seeking. Often times you may seek the advice | | | | process as an individual, be gentle with yourself. Allow |
| of your clergy, and again find that the answers are | | | | yourself to cry, to talk, to ask for help, to feel |
| so generalized, and not specific to your loved one | | | | everything authentically, and stop worrying what |
| (which you blame yourself for being focused on), | | | | other people will say or think about you. |
| that it fails to give you the real peace you are | | | | Be sure to take care of your physical body to help |
| seeking. | | | | combat some of the processes grief can kick into |
| So what do you do when you feel hopeless, and | | | | motion. Try to eat the right things (even if you don't |
| your feelings seem to go on forever? When all of | | | | feel like eating), drink plenty of water and make sure |
| the talking, crying, love, praying, time, and counseling | | | | you get plenty of rest. Breathe deeply throughout |
| does not make you feel any better? | | | | your day, and try to keep your body clock on |
| Ultimately there IS a way to know what has become | | | | schedule as much as you are able. |
| of your loved one. I am going to bring up a subject | | | | Go ahead and talk to your loved one, or write them |
| that may be unknown to you, or may make a few | | | | a letter. You can still communicate with them, and |
| of you uncomfortable, but please give me the | | | | they do still hear you, because they are with you. Put |
| benefit of the doubt, and read on with an open mind. | | | | personal items (pictures or any other reminders) of |
| A reading with a Psychic Medium (someone who can | | | | them out where you can see them and feel them |
| communicate with "The Other Side") can be a very | | | | near. Conversely, if this seems to cause you |
| powerful experience on your journey of healing. A | | | | discomfort, put them away. There will come a time |
| Psychic Medium is someone who can ask your loved | | | | when you are able to put them back out, when you |
| one the questions you have had, and can finally give | | | | will not feel such raw pain associated with these |
| the answers you have been seeking. Someone who | | | | items. |
| can tell you that your loved one is well, and convey | | | | Go anywhere you feel comforted, to your church, |
| to you what your loved one has been witness to | | | | counselor, the grave site, or your home, and know, |
| from The Other Side, and can share your loved ones | | | | really know, that wherever you are, so are they. |
| message that it is ok to move on without guilt, that | | | | Sit and be still. Meditate, pray but give yourself the |
| moving on does not mean you are moving away, or | | | | quiet opportunity to feel and sense your beloved's |
| don't love them (you don't have to prove your love | | | | presence with you still. Allow yourself to feel |
| through your grief). | | | | peaceful, to move past the pain to feel joy again. Do |
| Psychic Mediums have helped thousands of people | | | | not think that you have to be miserable to prove |
| cope with the grief of losing a loved one, by sharing | | | | your love; They know you love them, and want only |
| their beloved's unique and definitive messages and | | | | for you to be happy. Often, people feel that if they |
| affirmations with them. These messages have literally | | | | get past their grief, that perhaps their loved one will |
| changed those lives forever in multiple, positive ways. | | | | think they are no longer needed, and may "move on" |
| Knowing that your loved ones are not only happy | | | | and not remain near them. I can assure you, this is |
| and well, but are also still with you, sharing both your | | | | not true; They will never be far from you. |
| joys and sorrows, that they are watching over you | | | | Ultimately, allow yourself to need what you need, |
| and are able to share what they have observed in | | | | feel what you feel, and move through the process at |
| your life, empowers you to move forward with the | | | | your own pace, and in your own way. Know that |
| knowledge that you truly are not alone. Often times | | | | what may help one person, may not help you and |
| you may have unfinished business with your loved | | | | vice versa. |
| ones, things you wonder about, or something you | | | | Whatever you choose, whether it be a counselor, |
| were never able to hear or say before their passing. | | | | clergy, Psychic Medium, a combination of those, or |
| Being able to have closure in these areas, allows you | | | | nothing at all, always follow your own path, and give |
| to gain peace of mind and focus on the loving | | | | yourself the comfort of knowing that there is Light |
| aspects of your relationship with them. Sometimes, | | | | Beyond the Veil. Your loved ones are there, and are |
| people just need the validation that they too have | | | | eager to communicate with you, to help you live in |
| felt spirit presence, and have been receiving | | | | the peace and joy that you are here for. |
| messages on their own. Medium Readings can also | | | | |