Healing Despair and the Loss of Hope

At this time of monumental change on Earth, theto avoid feeling the pain.
challenges of life have become more accelerated, andHealing from despair and the loss of hope is a
there are a growing number of people who areprocess, and it generally does not happen overnight.
experiencing despair and a loss of hope.What is needed to sustain us during these times, is a
The activation of greater spiritual light on the Earthsource of love that can be present with us
has created a shift of awareness and priorities withinconsistently through the turbulent ups and downs of
the collective consciousness of humanity, and hasemotion that we are experiencing.
intensified the process of individual and globalAll of us are human and imperfect, and it may be
purification. This massive cleansing process is creatingthat our friends, family members or counselors are
great upheaval for so many people.not always able to always hold a consistent presence
As this process is becoming more accelerated on allof love for us during difficult times. Everyone on
levels, so are the challenges and transformations weEarth is being affected by the greater intensity of
may go through. We may encounter situations ofspiritual light, and they are also in a healing process. It
challenge and difficulty that feel so extreme, that weis helpful if we can cultivate an inner connection with
do not know how we are going to get through them.spirit that can sustain us through good times and bad.
Whether it be the loss of a loved one, a suddenIt is always a good idea to cultivate an inner
illness, living through a natural disaster, a sudden lossconnection with spirit, for the divine source of all
of our income and livelihood, or any other number oflove, light and life is available to us at all times to
painful situations, there are times When life becomesprovide comfort, support and nurturance no matter
so challenging that we are overwhelmed withwhat else is going on in our lives. The stronger this
emotions of grief, anger, and despair. "Why did thisconnection with the divine becomes within us, the
happen to me?" we ask, and it may be that wemore will be possible to receive in the way of
cannot feel any answer, or any sense of innerblessing, grace and healing.
comfort in the midst of our pain.When we are feeling overwhelmed with pain, despair,
At times like these, often our emotions are soor the loss of hope, it may not be possible for us to
intense that it is not possible to feel anything positive.extricate ourselves from the depths of emotion by
It is not possible to imagine living through untilourselves. In this situation, joining with others can be
tomorrow. It is not possible to believe we will everof great benefit. Whether it be a support group, a
feel whole again.healing relationship, or a close friendship, being willing
What is needed at times like this, is the healingto ask for and receive help will activate and
presence of love. Love is the healer which can mendstrengthen the presence of love in your own being
broken hearts and heal all wounds. Love is available atand within those who are available and willing to help.
all times from the divine, and also from within us andOne of the most potent experiences of despair is
around us. Love is the very fabric of physicallythe way it feels endless, and intractable. It pervades
manifest life on Earth, and though most of us do notall our senses and creates a feeling of hopelessness.
yet perceive the presence of love in this way, it isBecause it feels as though it will never end, we feel
growing stronger and is now more and more presentthere is no reason to go on. Despair can sit like a
in tangible ways in daily life.cloud in our body, our mind and our emotions. While
Love can come in many forms into our lives, in thewe are in it, it feels as though there is nothing else.
comforting embrace of a friend or family member, inWhat happens through the presence of love, is that
the prayers and good wishes of even those we arethe divine light that is a natural part of love, begins to
not personally connected with, or in the presence ofdissolve the cloud of despair. It can happen slowly or
God that we may be able to feel in quiet times. Lovequickly, but it does happen if you are able to find
can also be felt in the warmth of a relationship with awithin yourself the willingness to reach out for love.
beloved animal friend, or by being in a pristine naturalLove heals all, and transforms even the most intense
environment where you can feel the majesty andpain, if we can allow it. It is the path through despair,
grace of God's creation.and through love hope returns and can be felt in the
When we are in severe pain, often it is not possibleheart, the mind and the body. We feel lighter, clearer,
to feel or respond to love right away. If more lovemore open and more alive. We can feel the new
comes our way, it may trigger a flood of our deeperarriving into our consciousness, bringing forth blessings
emotions, causing us to cry harder, or feel angrier orwe never could imagine, the blessings that come
more despairing. We may try to isolate ourselves andfrom God's love.
hide from the pain, and hide from those who love us