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Article #76: From Cary IL: On Getting a Marriage Counselor to Fix your Marriage

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Finding a good marriage counselor who visit, take the time to prepare a list of
really cares about you and your marriage questions. Find someone to which you will
problems can be tough. When you feel comfortable talking, and with which
experience constant bickering and you will be able to carry out an open
arguments your self-esteem may be at its dialogue. If you have any questions,
lowest point. You may feel afraid of a don't hesitate to ask. Good marriage
possible divorce, feel terrified and you counselors want their clients to be
may even worry about the welfare of your prepared and require that they
kids. demonstrate a vested interest in their
When you find yourself suffering from a counseling.
troubled marriage, reaching out to a If you find your counselor difficult to
counselor may be one of the best things talk to, consider finding a new one. You
you can do. The type of counselor I am should never feel rushed, ignored, or
speaking of is a licensed psychologist, unable to ask questions. Let your
clinical social worker or mental health counselor know about any anxiety or
counselor who specializes in marriage nervousness you might be feeling. This
counseling. These highly trained mental can help him or her become more sensitive
health specialists have seen it all and to your concerns, and will probably
can give you valuable advice about your result in a better visit for both of you.
relationship difficulties and show you If you have decided to take that
how to solve them. important step of finding a good marriage
If you are thinking about visiting a counseling expert, here are a few tips
marriage counselor for the first time, for finding the best one. If the cost of
you are probably feeling apprehensive. treatment is paramount, consult your
This is absolutely normal. After all, you health insurance or employee assistance
(or your health insurance) are going to program at work to see if they cover
pay a stranger to learn about the most counseling. Determine whether you are
intimate and personal details of your restricted to a specific network of
life. You will be displaying a part of professionals then make an appointment as
your life that you probably spend most of early as possible.
your timetrying to deny or hide. But the What are the qualifications of a
effort and any embarrassment can be well well-trained marriage counselor? He or
worth the reward - a new chance at the she must be a psychologist, social
full and loving marriage for which you worker, marriage and family therapist or
hoped. mental health counselor that is licensed
When seeking out a marriage counselor, to practice independently in your state.
make a list of the features you are This licensure often requires that they
seeking. For example, take a look at what pass oral examinations and/or a
you might like about your family comprehensive written exam. He or she
physician? Are you most concerned about will have graduated from an accredited
someone who is sensitive to your concerns graduate school and have completed
and with whom you have a good rapport? specialized training.
Are you more worried about having someone Another thing to look for is membership
with flexible hours who can accommodate in the American Association of Marriage
your hectic schedule? For some, the most and Family Therapists or the American
important thing is having a very Counseling Association. Members receive
knowledgeable counselor with reputation continuing education classes, are peer
and the most extensive training. reviewed and must remain in good standing
Whatever your specific needs and to remain members.
interests, a good counselor will treat Also try to find a marriage counselor
all his or her clients with respect, with lots of experience. The one with
patience, sensitivity, and courtesy. many years experience is more apt to make
Well-trained professionals will be able an accurate assessment and provide an
to answer all your questions and discuss excellent counseling program.
your therapy options. Before your first






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