| Battling Cancer is an individual journey
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| | work and all of your coping skills.
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| that takes all of heaven and earth to
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| | Advice for the Caregiver:
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| combat.
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| | 1. Treat your Cancer client as if they
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| Choose your caregivers well!!:
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| | are going to live. DO NOT treat them as
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| Your Caregiver walks a fine line between
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| | if it's just a matter of time. Always
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| reality, support cheerleader, hand
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| | speak of their "experience" NEVER a
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| holder, master "hugger" and "inspiration
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| | disease.
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| machine", and friend, who must give that
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| | 2. You will most likely be caught up in
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| medicine, drives you to treatment, and
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| | the overwhelming environment of
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| fusses at you to keep you on track for
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| | caregiving, and handling every life and
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| your healing journey.
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| | medical detail and decision.
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| Your Cancer caregiver is your primary
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| | Try to look at the patient and all of
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| filter and monitor of your visitors, both
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| | their circumstances as if they are in a
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| family and friends. They should only
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| | healing situation, and in a positive
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| allow POSITIVE PEOPLE!!! and ONLY people
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| | manner. Don't be a Pollyanna, but try to
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| who are emotionally nourishing for you.
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| | put a positive spin on everything that
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| YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT!
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| | you can.
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| They should encourage you to be
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| | 3. Although your patient has
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| surrounded by individuals who treat as if
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| | "determination to live", that
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| you are living and expect you to have a
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| | determination needs to be rooted in
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| future. No "what if'ers,' no "maybe that
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| | positive. Positive energy raises their
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| won't work", or "oh you poor dear", or
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| | body's physical energy frequency which
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| any others who say negative things.
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| | fights their disease.
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| If ANYONE ever says to you "before you
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| | 4. Creating a positive uplifting
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| were living with cancer, now you're dying
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| | environment:a. Dress in happy colors.b.
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| with cancer."
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| | Help create a environmentally pleasant
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| Remove them from your life until they can
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| | and visually happy care area. Little
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| be respectful and empathetic! Not only
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| | touches mean a lot!c. Only allow positive
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| are they unable to determine your death,
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| | people around your patient. EXPLAIN why
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| they are also unkind to make a remark
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| | the negative folks need to stay away, and
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| like this.
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| | help keep them away.d. Be very conscious
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| If they say to you, "I was just making a
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| | of how YOUR energy can effect the
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| realistic statement so you won't be in
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| | "patient."
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| denial and we can address your will,
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| | If you view the patient in a "sick"
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| funeral plans, and future provisions."
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| | condition, you are sending negative
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| FORGET THAT justification!!!!! NO ONE who
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| | energy their way!
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| truly cares about your heart and soul,
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| | If you have a negative attitude, or
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| would ever say anything like that.
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| | irritable responses, you generate
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| Do not be so needy for attention, that
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| | negative energy which lowers your
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| you allow yourself to be the "victim" of
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| | patient's physical body frequency and
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| comments that are TOTALLY inappropriate!!
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| | DOES NOT help heal the disease. Your
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| no matter how sick you are. As long as
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| | energy field will affect your patient.e.
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| there is breath in your body, you have
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| | Keep your energy field clean. Your
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| the right to be treated with respect and
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| | patient is like a sponge and absorbs and
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| dignity, and as if you are going to
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| | interacts with all the energy surrounding
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| live!!!
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| | them and that they are exposed to.
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| Family members as Caregivers:
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| | 5. Contributing Life force energy thru
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| If you have spent your life helping
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| | Love:
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| others, and enabling them, it's time to
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| | On numerous occasions, family and friends
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| stop that energy drain. This does NOT
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| | have asked how they can contribute
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| mean that you do not love them anymore.
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| | positive energy to the "patient." [An
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| It means that you care enough about
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| | educational note: The hand that you write
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| yourself to take care of you FIRST, so
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| | with is your energy sending hand. The
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| that you can be around in the future to
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| | other hand is your energy input receiving
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| help them.
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| | hand.] So follow the directions below
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| Non-healing: 1. "But he's my brother and
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| | according to whether you are right or
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| he just drinks a little too much, and he
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| | left handed.
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| wants to come visit"..... His energy will
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| | Take your left receiving hand and place
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| drain you!!! Visit with him when you are
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| | it on your heart, and take your right
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| healed!
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| | sending hand to hold the patient's left
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| 2. At this time, YOU do NOT need to hear
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| | hand (receiving hand). Then say to the
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| their problems. They need to support you!
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| | patient, "I send you the love from my
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| Friends as Caregivers:
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| | Heart and it's healing life force energy
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| There are several kinds of friends during
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| | to use as you so choose."
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| this time in your life.
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| | You then become an "energizer" bunny for
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| The talkers:
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| | the patient thru your love for them.
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| They call to see how you are, listen for
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| | You are invited to download our free
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| a short period of time and then spend
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| | pamphlet with excerpts from this book
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| hours telling you about their life. They
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| | "Positive Attitudes, Affirmations &
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| ask if they can do anything for you. When
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| | Actions to Help Survive Your Cancer
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| you mention that you need a ride to chemo
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| | Experience" ISBN#: 978-0-9766370-0-4.at
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| on Thursdays, their answer is, "I'd love
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| | Feel free to reprint this article in it's
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| to take you, but I have book club." Do
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| | original format with the disclaimer.
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| not be discouraged. This person is
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| | CONTACT INFORMATION:
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| interested enough to call, but NOT
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| | Brent Atwater, Alternative Medical
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| authentic about truly helping you or they
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| | Specialist
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| would have taken you to chemo........
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| | Atlanta, GA 1.404.242.9022 USA
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| There will be more book clubs, this is
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| | NC Office: 1.910.692.5206 USAemail:
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| your battle with a disease! Thank them
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| | Disclaimer: There are no guarantees about
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| for calling, and get off the phone.
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| | the healing properties of these
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| You are not THAT needy to have to talk
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| | suggestions. We can only state that
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| with someone who won't really be there
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| | positive results have been documented for
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| for you!
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| | individual clients and research in this
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| The Doers:
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| | area continues. Ms Atwater is not a
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| These are the friends that pick you up,
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| | medical doctor or associated with any
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| sit through, and bring you home after
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| | branch of medicine. Ms Atwater works in
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| chemo, and probably add fresh flowers to
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| | Alternative, Integrative and
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| your home. Be thankful. They encourage
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| | Complementary Medicine. She offers her
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| you to live with every dinner invitation,
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| | opinions based on her intuition, which is
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| movie, or "let's go to" invitation. GO!
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| | not a substitute for medical procedures
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| Do not feel like you are "putting them
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| | or treatments. Always consult a physician
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| out", "being a bother", or whatever. When
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| | or health care provider concerning any
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| you are well, YOU can DO for them!!!!!
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| | medical problem or condition before
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| They are your Earth Angels.
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| | undertaking any diet, health related or
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| Being the Caregiver for someone battling
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| | lifestyle change program.
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| cancer, and going through cancer
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| | There are no guarantees with any of the
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| treatment is a job that requires
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| | suggestions in this publication.
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| everything you can muster to handle your
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